The number of people I know that have spent years trying to get pregnant is massive. It's a growing problem that is costing couples thousands of dollars, not to mention the stress and emotional drainage of treatment. New Zealand has as many as 90,000 people at any one time dealing with infertility. This includes both men and women.
As the pressures and expectations of society have changed so have our birth rates. It's no longer the norm to have children at the peak reproductive ages of 19-25. Instead we are trying to conceive in our 30's and even our 40's. Of course this is easy enough to blame for infertility rates but the problem actually goes much deeper than that.
Infertility and sterility affects both men and women of all ages and has done forever. That's why adoption has always existed. Simple research into various historical eras show women being put aside by their husbands for their inability to conceive a child. (Sometimes it was the guy's swimmers that weren't working properly though! But hey, blame the woman anyway they did).
My viewpoint differs from that of the medical field (don't look surprised! haha). There is rhyme and reason to everything and this goes for the infertility issue too. I know that one of the reasons for infertility is the connection to past lives. A person's past life can have a dramatic effect on their current life. Short-term and ongoing fertility problems or live birth problems, including miscarriage and stillbirths, can all be symptoms of a past life issue. So if you've been diagnosed with 'unexplainable infertility' looking into your past lives could be the next step forward.
This past life connection isn't necessarily as traumatic as other past life issues that cause difficulties. The majority of past life experiences that relate to infertility aren't fatal. Yes, a person's past life death can indeed cause infertility in this life, but it's not so common. Dying from childbirth in a past life can instil a fear of the birth process in this life. This is usually the only fatal instance from a past life that leaves a path for infertility in this life.
Here's some of the past life causes of present life infertility and why they may have left an imprint on your soul. Remember that all of these relate to both men and women and don't mean that you are a 'bad' person in this life:
You may have been a male in a past life who raped women. The universe is now projecting that back at you by refusing you the right to procreate. Learning to forgive yourself for this is a big step in the right direction. Most importantly though you'll need to experience the guilt associated with it as you may not have already done so in previous lives. Saying a prayer for your victims is a must. Also, being the victim of rape in a past life may be the underlying cause of your infertility. In this instance the soul has a desire to be 'pure' in this lifetime as it would've been traumatised by the event in the past. You may have a low sex drive in this life if this was the case.
Being a prostitute in a past life would've been a hard road to travel. There were no regulations surrounding workplace health and safety in the industry like we have today. For most people, being a prostitute in the past was a means of survival. As with being the victim of rape in a past life, experiencing repeated rough treatment as a prostitute from a past life may have left your soul with a desire to become 'pure' in this life.
Abortion from a past life causes a karmic debt. Your soul and the soul of the baby most likely had an agreement to create this debt in order to learn and grow on a soul level. Your debt may not have been paid back in previous lives though, so is being paid in this life. Regressing and forgiving yourself is a big step forward as is asking the soul/s that were aborted to forgive you.
Poisoning from a past life causes all sorts of issues. Infertility being one of them. Poisoning includes abuse of contraceptives and fertility treatments which were just nasty back in the days. Overuse of any drug or poison leaves the soul lagging. It's a devastating situation and takes quite a few lifetimes to overcome. Your soul may be wanting to purge any memory of the poison. Conceiving and carrying a child in this life may upset the balance of the lesson that your soul is trying to learn.
As mentioned earlier this can cause an ongoing fear of child birth in the soul. Reliving this experience and taking real note of the medical advances and safety of childbirth in this day and age will help immensly.
You did something naughty and your soul has decided to pay the debt in this lifetime. It could've been anything!
Mutilation/ Trauma to Reproductive Organs:
Your soul may be carrying a traumatic experience into this life. If your insides/ bits-n-pieces aren't working as they should they may have been damaged in a past life. A good example is castration and a knife through the lower stomach area
Deceit of Another:
Using the gift or lure of children to harm someone or destroy someone's given path. This could include deceiving someone by getting pregnant so that you can have them to yourself, which in turn took them off their chosen path. Or using your children as a weapon against your partner. Husbands use to do this a lot in the past to keep their wives from leaving them. e.g. 'If you leave me you'll never see your children again.' Horrible stuff!
Making A Vow
Making a vow to never have children- it's a pretty powerful thing! You could've sworn black and blue in a previous life that you would never have children. Guess what? You've stuck to that vow. Make a new vow to never promise the universe anything like that again, and pray to have the old vow overturned.
None of these past life occurrences mean that you have to feel guilty in this life. Most of us have been both the victim and baddie in more than one lifetime. We're all human and we're all souls learning to grow.
People with fertility issues may be able to overcome them with past life regression treatment. A past life regression takes you through past lives that are directly affecting your current life and help you to relive and release the hurt or burden from that lifetime. It can be an extremely emotional experience but it also does the job! Reliving these issues can unblock the energy and remove the imprint from your soul. You get to learn your lesson and move on sooner!
It may also be your lot in this life to be childless or to adopt a child. Our souls are always aiming to evolve and this means that we need to experience being a part of many different roles and events. I will be writing another post about this and miscarridge at a later date. I do hope that it helps many of you to get through some of these trying occasions and that you found some answers in this post.
Light and love to you all
*Important: The advise above is not a substitute for professional medical advise. If you have ongoing infertility issues please contact a registered healthcare professional for help.