It's the month of love so I thought that we'd delve into love a little more! Love and romance can seem elusive at times. But, how hard is it really to find love? Here's the run down on finding love in a spiritual sense and what you can do to up your chances of finding love.
It's the biggest, most common and important question that I get asked during psychic readings: 'When will I find love?". Yes, it is often worded differently, but the underlying question is just the same. It is a very rare person who will come to see me for a reading and not ask about love. It's not a straight forward topic though because as humans we aren't straight forward. We're all different on many levels and this makes love different for everyone too.
So, when attempting to manifest love something more important needs to be done first. You need to bin the checklist that is in your mind (or on paper) which details all the physical aspects of your ideal partner. This is easier said than done because often we've subconsciously accumulated a list which is confusing, conflicting and downright impossible for anyone to fulfil. With practice and patience, it can be done though.
Another important aspect of manifesting love is that you must be open to finding it. If you relegate someone to the 'not your type' list instantly then you're not opening yourself up to love. Finding love with someone else usually surprises us, so giving everybody a chance to get to know you will naturally manifest open energy which is turn will attract a new mate.
Positive thinking is a big part of any manifestation work too. And it is just as important in the manifestation of love as it is in the manifestation of creating abundance or happiness. If you find yourself thinking negatively about yourself or about love then you're going to create a block in the manifestation energy. Discard all negative thoughts towards love such as 'I'll never find anyone', 'There's a man/woman drought', 'I'm getting too old to find love' or 'No one will want me since I'm not pretty/smart/baggage-free enough' and you'll see a noticeable change in the amount of people who naturally gravitate towards you. Be aware of your thoughts and if these negative thoughts pop up then simply replace them with their positive opposite.
Ditch the soap operas, dramas, reality T.V. and gossipy magazines. Your mind will latch onto what you see and hear which in turn will make positive thinking and the manifestation of love impossible.
Work on visualising love. This can be as simple as giving yourself a few minutes to daydream about your ideal partner or to think of your ideal relationship before you go to bed.
In the physical world, the best thing you can do is put yourself out there. You're bound to get a few self-esteem knockbacks and people who will disappoint, but this is why working on the positive thinking aspect first is so important. Get out of your shell, go out, join Tinder/Bumble/Whatever and be active in finding love. The Universe will always take notice if you are putting in effort and are genuinely out to find someone special!
I hope that helps you all. It's a tricky road finding your match but with a little help from the Universe it is certainly possible to meet them
Love and light xoxo