 When a loved one passes away it's quite common to experience visits from them during our sleeping hours. If you've experienced this before you can rest-assured that it's completely normal. I've had many people ask and share their stories with me about spirits who visit during the night, and who in particular like to hang around their bed. There's always a common experience, seeing a loved one standing at the foot of the bed or sitting next to them on the bed. You may have experienced this for yourself either prior to falling asleep or when you were dreaming while sleep. There's a reason why our spirit friends like to visit at this time and why they like to hang around our beds so much! When someone close to you passes away they often want to visit and be close to those that they loved most while they were still alive. They will quite often choose to 'appear' to only one family member too. This choice is usually to do with how receptive a particular person in the family is, whether they have the confidence to share their experience with other family members and how important they were to this spirit when they were still alive. To understand why spirits visit at night time you first need to understand vibrational frquencies. The spirit realm has a higher vibrational frequency since they are so close to the source or pure white light, whereas us poor people on the physical plane tend to have a lower vibrational frequency. Mediums and physics naturally have a higher vibrational energy and this is how they are able to communicate with passed over loved ones. I've heard this vibrational energy difference being likened to that of a radio frequency- if you're on the same frequency you'll hear the message clearly, if it's slightly off you'll get static but still get some of the message will come through, and if you're on a completely different wave length you won't receive any messages at all. So what it comes down to is our energy vibrations at night time. Because spirit's energy resonates at a higher frequency than most humans the only way they can communicate is if we are at the same, or at least a close, frequency to theirs. At night time our vibrational frequency naturally changes. Relaxation, meditation and rest all change our vibrational level to a higher frequency which is why night time is the perfect time for spirit to communicate. Sometimes spirit will appear to us while we are dreaming. It is much easier for them to communicate with us while we are in a dream state because our vibrational level is at the perfect frequency for them. Learning how to minic the brain waves of a dream state will naturally lead to more comminication with the spirit realm, and this can be achieved through frequent meditation. Spirits choose to hang around our beds as this is the time when we are most relaxed and have a minimal amount of distractions present. If you're going about your daily business it's not really an ideal time for them to try and communicate with you amoungst all the hussle and bussle. Parents, children and partners also tend to share bonding time in their physical life while in bed, so this has naturally become a safe haven for spirits to appear in. Why the sitting at the end of the bed though? A passed over loved one has every intention of getting their message through to you, and the last thing they want is to scare you off! Physical distance and giving you a bit of space seems to be their way of making the whole situation a little easier to comprehend. So next time you experience a spirit sitting at the end of your bed, don't panic! That person is there for a reason and wants to be close to you so embrace their pressence and enjoy whatever message they need to share. Love and light xx
48 Comments
Kimberly Earls
21/6/2016 06:23:00 am
My husband has told me he has seen are son and his dad next to the bed. I was told that husband is dye from his liver are son has pass from cancer I just want to know are they here to get him and how soon. My son is alive but he don’t live with me. We have a great relationship. I saw his spirit on my side and I call him ( like don’t believe what I’m seeing..) and I try to touch him... I’m don’t drink, I don’t use drugs & I’m healthy. I need to understand it. If someone c 22/1/2021 10:04:26 pm
Thats their spirits visiting you their thinking and missing you . they are watching over you and senting live.
Matt
21/6/2016 03:50:19 pm
Hi I am now 36, when I was maybe 8-9 I was sick at home from school in mums waterbed I awoke to the bed moving as if a cat had jumped on it, when I turned I saw a older lady sitting at the end of the bed, being so young this scared the living daylight out of me. I hid under the blanket and yelled for my mother. I wished now in hindsight I had of spoken with the older woman if nothing else to find out who she was or why she was there.
Riss
27/10/2020 08:22:31 am
Omg you poor thing my daughter is 10 and she has the same experiences. I personally think they only come to those people who are gifted and maybe she felt safe with you or maybe that was her house you lived in was your house old?
Leisa
15/5/2017 09:08:24 pm
I definitely pick up the situation and what it is conveying. If a situation is real it resonates, if the situation is off then I will call it out to and remind it to align itselfs with the proper intention.
Jill Asquith
27/10/2017 06:16:40 am
My mum frequently comes to see me. I feel pressure on the bed. Days after she had passed on I was having a nightmare and she moved the pillow to wake me up. Plus lots of other instances. She is most definitely still here. Love you heaps Mum.
Shar
8/11/2017 01:31:40 am
My grandparents came to me recently while I was lying in bed & husband was asleep next to me. I could see them, feel their warmth & smell my grandma. She told me she loved me then made a joke about my husband and how he can’t sneak up to her door anymore but she can sneak up on him which is quite funny as after she passed in February this year my husband stated one of his fondest memories was trying to sneak up to her front door when we would visit but she would always catch him. The message from her was so clear! Grandpa sounded like he was trying to say something too which took a while and wasn’t as clear (maybe because I was only 9 when he passed) but I didn’t manage to hear “he’s a good man and don’t pick on my magpies” to my husband. After that nan told me she was going to check on the kids, and shortly after my baby started stirring in her cot!
Trina
2/6/2018 04:36:23 pm
My much-loved grandmother passed around midnight when I was 19. That night I dreamed off and on and felt her presence keenly. She visited me often in my dreams until one night when I told her how much I loved and missed her. She replied that she had waited so long to hear me say that. Since then she has not visited me in my dreams but I have felt her soothing presence during some dark hours of my life. I feel she watches over me and loves me still...
Kait
16/2/2020 08:30:27 pm
I actually was asleep a week a half ago and I remember all of a sudden I smelled my mom on my pillow like she was near and then like kind of cloudy looking she was standing by the bed at me but I can’t remember if she said anything :( I’m waiting for that to happen
bradley buzzcut
6/5/2018 11:46:36 am
the other night i was about to fall asleep and i heard a voice tell me that my up and coming "apprenticeship will fall through" now im studying at the moment and the course has a high chance of leading to an apprenticeship...im wondering how it could fall through
Willis
31/12/2018 11:45:46 pm
After my childhood best friend had passed on from colon cancer we were experiencing taps on our bed always 2 taps by the head or feet me my wife and our daughter had all experience this it would happen for a week then it stopped i believe that this was our best friend saying he is with us or maybe he is ok idk but i know it was him we love and miss him dearly
Naomie
11/2/2019 06:52:08 pm
My mother in law is in heaven with God.She have been done something around like I have been hearing bell in my ear,felt like she want to say something,One night I saw a light bright at the end of our bed and I got scared and the light disappeared.So I prayed that pls don't scare again and if you wanna tell something come in my sleep.So I dreamt of her and I know she is happy and in good hands 😊 .I love my mother inlaw.She is the best.She will always be in my heart.Love you Mum.
Natale Vittori
23/3/2019 01:26:37 pm
I am experiencing many spirit visit where i see the end of the bed even lowering. I fell a very strong energy coming from that entity ; question : how i communicate with him ? verbally mentally ? how do i know that is a spirit of light and not from darkness ? Thank you
Zara
2/5/2019 04:14:27 pm
When my brother passed away at 13, he visited me in my dream a couple nights after the accident. It felt too different from a regular dream. He told me how happy he was, and that I had to let him go. We talked for a while, I just wouldn’t stop talking because I didn’t want him to leave. He kept saying he had to go back but I just kept talking. He even tricked me, he said he wasn’t really dead and it felt like he was right. Then he started laughing. He always tricked me and made jokes out of everything. Then before he left, he asked me to watch over dad for him..I woke up straight away and I could smell his scent. I’ll never forget it.
Debbie
2/6/2019 03:29:15 am
Mother passed in 2008.A Retired Nurse She was and I had experienced my 1st major surgery in 2010.At home after Home health Nurse left, I went to bed crying out for the pain was agonizing after the dressing change to surgical site.I cried out," I want My Mother!" And suddenly I felt a pressure on the bed and I was wide awake and out of that bed in about 3 seconds for after it resonated what had JUST happenef, it scared the heck out of me! But I am a TRUE believer after that experience.
Felicity
7/6/2019 07:08:04 pm
Ever since putting my electric blanket on my bed, two nights ago, I've woken up because it has been turned on about 12am and I wake up from the heat. I've been woken up regularly in the past by objects being knocked over or random things dropping with seemingly no reason before. I am thinking that some kind of spirit has found a new innovative way to wake me up. It's pretty annoying and I asked them not to yesterday but it happened again. No idea what they want.
Marsha
17/6/2019 03:33:41 am
I have been awakened the past couple of nights at exactly 2:25a.m. I was sleeping so good, and when I woke up it was as if I hadn't been asleep. My mother passed away last year from cancer, and I feel like it's her. We were so close. The first night I woke up I heard a door shut. The next night I heard spoons rattling in the kitchen. Often at night, I hear dishes falling/ moving in the cabinets. I really hope it's her trying to communicate!
Nicholas Gerardi
15/7/2019 05:18:39 am
I have read dozens of accounts, I seam to be the only one that got bad news. Yes every thing was the same the face light, but I coulden't talk. There were 4 more dreams. 3yrs nothing.
Lani
20/8/2019 11:08:50 pm
One night I was in the zone where I was about to fall asleep when I heard a voice with a British accent saying “16th of November 1916” I then woke to look up this date and it said it was during ww1 Germany invading the British or something like that, I told my dad and he told me my 3 great uncles died in 1916 in the war, and I’m thinking it may have been the date one of them died but I’m not sure ?
Darlene Kozlovskis
13/1/2020 03:48:40 am
How can I stop random dead from coming in my sleep? I wake up screaming out loud. Waking my poor husband. It's been happening alot, sometimes, they will stand beside my bed. I don't know who they are.
Mike (Wolf Paranormal)
26/1/2020 05:09:57 am
As a paranormal Investigator I pick up alot of times when spirits come. Some that I have encountered was my grandfather. He came on the night of his passing giving message to me saying he had went on to be with the Lord. During a few of my Investigations I have had a few make themselves known and one is a teenage girl, 19-20 years of age who died in a horrible car accident in Summer of 2018. In summer of 2019 me and a brother went on a long bike trip to the crash site and did a spiritbox and evp session and we got clear voice of the girl saying "help me please" and her saying "Miranda" when we asked if it was her. Still to this day her spirit can be seen and her final emotions felt when going by or stopping at the crash site to pay respects.
Emily Duncan
15/2/2020 07:34:44 am
Janet Pickersgill
23/2/2020 02:59:59 am
Just recently I've someone or something in my bedroom in the early hours, my bed shakes first and Thursday morning on waking really early i noticed shadows and shapes near me, i opened my mouth to scream but i couldn't, this has really scared me and wondered if you could help
Donna
17/2/2022 09:30:00 am
Mine too. Someone sits on my bed, shakes it. It is now scaring me and I don't know what to do. I have prayed, smudged, it won't stop. It exhausts me because it keeps me awake. I cried last night because I'm at wits end. Been going on too long
Peggy
1/3/2020 11:01:38 pm
I usually sleep with a selenite crystal held in my left hand and another under my pillow. They help me sleep better and give me vivid dreams. I had a bad dream this morning. Where I ran into a child sized android. It gave me a big hug and was so strong it was crushing and suffocating me. I could not breathe or wake up. Then I remembered to let go of the crystal in my hand. After that I could consciously wake up. I was still tired and trying to catch my breath. I decided to close my eyes to see if I could sleep again but decided not to go back to the same dream. While my eyes were closed, I felt a presence trying to nudge me. Then I realized they weren’t touching me. They pierced my aura over my hip area. Then I heard a voice say, “Are you still there?” “We are in a psychic connection?” It freaked me out so much I just got out of bed. Can you make a psychic connection when your asleep?
Peggy
30/4/2020 11:43:01 pm
Since I posted last. I discovered that my psychic connection is to my nine year old daughter. Ever since then my empathic connection to her has increased. I’ve experienced two occasions where she was near me then walked away and a rush of feelings overtook me. They were not mine. It allowed me to feel her pain and regret of falling earlier that day onto the metal bars on her swing set. The feelings were very heavy and intense. On another, occasion she was upset about a dream she had. She was being chased by a monster and fell into a black hole. When I felt her pain it was a feeling of deep hopelessness and despair. Her feelings were so intense. It reminded me of being a child and not knowing how to deal with problems that scare you. I have learned not to be scared of any dreams or messages. We need to listen and ask who is calling us and what do they want.
Laiza Aponte
7/3/2020 03:58:26 am
This happens often. I don't know the spirit or whatever is spooking me out. It's disturbing, been in this situation for years, since I was a kid. I hear things, see things, I read about it, but nothing makes sense, each case is different and I cannot compare any experience with mine because is not even similar. I get probably 2 to 3 days out of a week disturbing nigh time visits, it scares me, doesn't let me sleep and it freaks me out. Sometimes is more often, then I have to cleanse my place, pray and throw holy water (gets quite for a few weeks) Then starts again. This entities are horrible, they are parasites and I really don't want them. This needs to stop, I'm tired. I tried to contact people that supposedly know about this situations, but no one have reply, maybe they think I'm lying or crazy. I will be so grateful is someone can help me or at least point me a direction. Thank you
Sabrina Whiteman
18/12/2020 08:02:03 am
I have had visit experiences since I was a kid too. As a teenager I vividly remember get slapped on my back. I've shared that story with one person and it scared him a lot. Usually I feel someone lying or sitting next to me or removing my comforter. There's also tickling.
Matthew
8/3/2020 08:31:38 pm
My brother passed of an overdose. A couple weeks after he made a visit in my dreams and asked me if I was mad at him.. the dream was very real and detailed
Alexandria
28/3/2020 03:46:22 pm
so this weird thing keeps happening to me ever since i moved into my new house with the rest of my family, i wake up in the middle of the night and feel a man hugging me with my back turned towds him. i look over my shoulder to see who it is but no one is there. and i sometimes hear a muffled go back to sleep as if someone was speaking into the back of my neck.. and i haven't lost anyone male in my family, plus no one holds me like that, ever. so its comforting but kinda creepy? ether way i like it so meh.
Lou
6/4/2022 06:33:51 am
This is similar to my experience. Occasionally he will speak to me in a low, clear voice close to my ear. He will say hello, and other things I don’t remember. He’ll lie next to me as I sleep and hold my hand. Once, he kissed me on the cheek. 6 years ago he used to pull my spirit out while I was in sleep paralysis and hold me in his arms. The strange thing is, he never let me kiss him back though the two times I succeeded he disappeared for a while. I still feel bad about it. It creeps me out a little, but I mostly enjoy his presence. I’m glad to find someone with a similar experience.
Tasia
10/4/2020 04:18:45 pm
My close friend just passed away in my house about 2 weeks ago , everything was so sudden I just been begging for him to come give me a sign. Yesterday he finally came on his birthday . I was asleep and I heard a voice in my head say "I'm alright , I'm okay" as soon as I heard that I opened my eyes and my room door just flew open. I know for sure this was him coming to me ... 11/4/2020 07:34:45 am
My family went to stay at my dads newly refurbished mansion for the week of thanksgiving. He was visiting friends in another state. We all felt the creeps in the older parts of the home. Nothing in the new areas. My husband and I slept in the master bedroom. First night I saw something and thought it was shadows. The next time I saw them they were moving near the ceiling. I asked my husband if he saw it. At that moment they stopped moving and I knew they heard me. Hubby of course saw nothing. Our last night I was woken by a sharp pain. I sit up and there’s a spirit standing next to my husband. It looked like a werewolf. Bright white shining. I saw another at the foot of the bed. Smaller and it seemed to be bored. I wake my husband and he doesn’t see anything. But he listens intently to my conversation. They didn’t speak to me but would respond with nods and hand movements. Though that was terrifying as the hands were just 3 sharp claws. The one standing by my husband kept looking down at him and then at me. I explained that he couldn’t see him. It really wanted him to. So it shoved the chair that was next to it. Hubby saw and heard that. It was pleased. At this point I went to the restroom and I saw three large scratches on my right thigh. The pain that woke me. I ran out and yelled at them. Crazy I know, but I was mad. I told them we were just visiting and they had no reason to try to scare us. I tried sleeping, but they kept touching my hair and pulling on my feet. Thankfully our week was over that day and we went home. Found out later that my dad has a friend that is a shaman and he said he sensed wolf like energy. He got rid of them and told me I was very lucky as they were evil. Most likely was attached to an antique piece of furniture that had been recently purchased. Since that happened I’ve had 3 more visits at my home. Nothing scary and I’ve not acknowledged them. A little girl came twice and then an adult female. I didn’t see her. She just whispered my name and then tapped the headphones I was wearing 3 times. Noise canceling headphones that I was listening to the sounds of the ocean. Can’t hear a thing when I wear them. But I heard my name clearly in my right ear. I’m not really sure what to do. I never thought I would ever have this happen. Especially so late in life. I’m afraid if I do acknowledge them that I’ll keep getting more visitors. Thank goodness others felt the first spirits and my husband saw the scratches and the chair moving or I may have thought I was crazy. Glad to see I’m not the only one who has had visits.
Vanessa
20/4/2020 01:02:25 pm
I woke from my sleep last night in a sweat and i felt as though someone was sitting on my bed and i felt them holding my hand...
Tara
29/4/2020 02:09:41 am
Deb
1/5/2020 03:48:39 am
A deceased loved one, my first boyfriend/love from 37 yrs ago, visits often the same time, which shows on my digital clock in early morning hour. The time is also his date of birth. I only see a dark mass over me but feel his presence, cold/heavy weight & strong love/butterflies in stomach. I always ask him to make a knocking noise for confirmation and I always hear one knock on the furniture within seconds sometimes takes minutes after asking. Then I start talking to him. I can sometimes hear his thoughts in my head as they are thoughts that just pop into my mind that I wouldn't have come up with on my own. Other times it's just silent. I want to see him in solid form but I don't know how.
Rebecca E Hampton
7/5/2020 04:04:58 am
I have seen spirits but would just stare and at night right as I was almost asleep it was like they were right at my ear iv been told to get up or my name and no one is around but it's a loud whisper that I don't understand I have caught myself dazing off more and more and then I see this small picture while in a daze.
Lou
6/4/2022 06:38:20 am
This happened to me once with a spirit that had been visiting for a while. He kept saying my name into my ear as I was dozing off and sending random images of people into my mind. A child, a man, a girl. I thought he was trying to scare me, however as I look back now I think he was experimenting with something. I don’t know what that is.
Patricia
3/11/2020 12:40:18 pm
I have always seen spirits my entire life. Mt current home has quite a few of them. But lately there has been a man that stands next to my boyfriend as he sleeps. I described the guy to my boyfriend to see if he knows anyone that looks like that but he doesn't. My boyfriend doesn't sleep well so I'm wondering if this spirit is is helping him or not. I don't know but he wants me to know he is there because he fades away but comes right back very clearly so I can see him as clearly as a living person.
Justin
6/11/2020 03:47:33 pm
So, lately there has been a spirit coming in my bedroom. The first time was about a month ago a little girl I believe she tickled my wifes feet then bounces on the bed twice. Last night my duaghter of 4 slept with us and at 3:30amthe girl came back and played on my back and side I felt her and rolled over to see my duaghter fast asleep way on the other side snuggled nwxt to my wife. My cats don't seem scared of her but I wonder could this be the start of something bad or good . I have three children and worry.
Alexis Miller
9/11/2020 01:58:18 am
Not too many hours ago I remember having a dream of being in a random hotel with nobody there but throughout it all I could hear talking and speaking( I couldn't tell if it was me or someone else). I specifically remember the feeling of turning my head and seeing a brown brief case then I suddenly woke up and felt like I was being pushed down onto the couch and I couldn't move or speak. I heard my grandma call me for a sec and I tried to say something but I couldn't move my mouth, but after a few minutes I jumped off the couch to catch my breath. I certainly didn't go back to bed after that and Im not sure if I just experienced some kind of spiritual encounter or paralysis, but this really freaked me out.
Juju
8/12/2020 01:31:33 am
When i was a kid, i felt something tickle my feet. I woke up and saw a man in a hockey mask pacing back in forth in the corner of my room , i was terrified and almost frozen stuck i could not move and was scared of his energy (i finally woke up n ran to my moms room telling her there was a man in my room). Fast forward 10 years, i fall asleep with selenite under my pillow- i feel his exact same energy in my room. I have a dream that I’m struggling to unlock a back door and i feel a man watching me, I’m scared and try to unlock it faster i see in reflection of window a white man behind me just watching me.. i run inside house and tell my mom there was a man watching me. I don’t think he will hurt me, but why do i get such bad feelings when he is around? 19/2/2021 06:34:02 pm
This sort of describes What I have dealt with my whole life. I am justnow trying to learn more about what is happening to me and to not be afraid of the experience.
Rose Mitchell
23/2/2021 02:37:51 pm
Love and Light also.. i enjoyed your article.
Sophia
20/8/2021 09:55:11 am
Our family dog was run over recently. Our whole family is completely shattered in so many ways. In the days after our sweet girls death I cried and cried and the grief was so real it was almost unreal.
At night I experience a feeling of a high frequency cursing right through my body, when this happens it’s always followed by a person lying behind me and wrapping their arms around me, I find it very hard to breathe, at first it alarmed me, but as it happens fairly regularly I have become accustomed. How can I channel these experiences? As I would really like to develop my clairvoyant gift that I have had since I was a child.
Donna
14/1/2022 02:19:51 pm
I was sleeping last week and woke up to someone sleeping beside me. I could feel their butt against mine and they were breathing. I thought one of my family members had crawled into bed with me but I turned over there was nothing there. I laid awake just kinda of listening and being scared, not knowing what to do and then I could feel them sit up and lean over my body. It felt like they were looking at my face. I pretended to be asleep and they left after a minute or two. I don’t know if this is a good spirit, a bad one, although I don’t get the feeling it wants to hurt me but is scares the hell out of me and don’t know what to do Your comment will be posted after it is approved.
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