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When A Spirit Guide Leaves You

4/9/2015

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Spirit guide leaving
Contrary to popular belief spirit guides can leave you. Let's look at the why's and how's of it all...

I had a spirit guide of mine leave me the other week. It wasn't fun either. In fact, it left me confused more than anything.

I was always under the impression that your spirit guides stayed with you for your entire life and that some even stayed with you over many lifetimes. This is what I had read and what I had been told by many professional and well-known psychics, mediums, readers and spiritual healers before. It is far from the truth though.

We all have a few or more spirit guides that guide and protect us as we go about our daily lives. The majority of these guides will stick with us for the entirety of our lifetime or more. Part of their purpose is to help our soul grow and evolve so that eventually our soul can reach enlightenment. When certain lessons are learnt a guide may well decide to leave you.

You'll know when a guide is leaving you because you'll have an extremely shitty day emotionally prior to them doing so. There'll be no rhyme or reason as to why you're feeling all off-centre and emotional. This is them telling you that they're about to depart. You'll be reacting to this news on a soul level which in turn manifests in the physical. No one likes to be told that someone they love is leaving them for good, and every spirit guide of yours is deeply in love with you as you are with them regardless of whether you're aware of it or not. You may go through feelings of betrayal, loss, loneliness, sadness and hurt at this time which as an absolutely normal reaction to this parting. They will also appear to you visually before they depart so that you'll remember them after they have gone.

When my guide left me I was told that he'd be gone by the following morning. So the time frame was within a day and I had no prior warning of it beforehand. The time frame may differ for everyone but as yet I can't be sure. I don't think it'd be very kind and loving of guides to keep someone in this state for any longer than a day!

The reasons for their departure can vary. I had apparently learnt to let go of anger properly and forgive (after 31 years of work I'm sure my guide was pleased that I'd finally caught on!). Because I had learnt this he had no further work to do with me and my soul didn't need him anymore. It also allowed me to move up to a higher vibrational level and heightened level of spiritual awareness. This is the catch 22- when a guide leaves you your level of awareness will rise but then again you'll also go through a bit of turmoil to get there.

After my guide had left me the following week proved to be quite strange. I had conflicting feelings: one minute I'd feel calmer than I'd ever felt then the next minute I was having a panic attack (horrible things panic attacks!). My physical energy levels also felt very low. I felt very strong and secure emotionally but then my body was doing it's own thing by throwing in these attacks. I can only put this down to the parting of my soul from my guide's and the breaking in cords/ties that our soul's had between one another...it somehow shot through to my physical body.

So from what I can gather a spirit guide will leave you once they have taught you a certain lesson. There will always be a 'test' prior to them leaving too. If you struggle with anger and forgiveness as I have my entire life then you will be constantly 'tested' through various events that happen in your life. You may find that numerous nasty people are continuously being put in front of you and challenging you. This will continue to occur until you learn your lesson on how to forgive. Or you may be prone to jealousy and find that you are regularly faced with people that make you jealous in order for you to learn how to get over that. 

Whatever the lessons are that you need to learn you can be sure that you'll be faced with them time and time again until you finally understand it and learn how to deal with it in a healthy manner. This is why it's important to learn through other people and events than happen during your life, otherwise it will just keep going on and on.

So, all in all I count losing a spirit guide as kind of a confirmation that I'm on the right track. It was a long journey but I obviously passed my exam on Anger & Forgiveness and can move on. I hope that everyone gets the chance to experience this because even though it isn't an entirely pleasant event losing one of your guides it does make you feel like you've achieved something that was meant to be impossible.


Love, light and blessings to you all (and your guides)
xoxoxo

     
"I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I,
I took the one less travelled by,
And that has made all the difference."



- Robert Frost
(Excerpt used from 'The Road Not Taken')
11 Comments
Ashley
3/9/2015 07:58:46 pm

Thank you for this! This happened to me about 2 weeks ago and I was just in this rut I could NOT get out of. I kept trying to raise my vibes and just couldn't and I felt alone and sad and just drained mentally and emotionally. Wehn I finally started having a good day my dog was hit by a truck (she lived but we are still nursing her back to health) my mother had left the gate open. I broke. I screamed and cried and asked the universe why this was happening to me if I was doing everything they asked. As hard as it was I knew it was a test I just knew and I wouldn't let myself blame anyone where a year ago I would have. I finally had the energy to do a reading on myself yesterday and a new guide came through I didn't even have to ask about my dog and he told me "this happened so you could grow and learn to feel your emotions. you weren't feeling you were just ignoring them we had to have something happen to get you to feel" odd and hard lesson but it worked and surprisingly my vibes have risen and I have seemed to reach a new vibrational level. I do believe that one guide had left and another has stepped forth.

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Éilis Niamh link
6/9/2015 04:28:43 am

What a harrowing experience! This has happened to me once, I didn't even know about guides and vibration levels and such at the time, just knew there was this woman who was helping me in the other world and one day she just vanished. No explanation. No goodbye. I felt betrayed and confused, so much so that I shut down spiritually for several years. I felt like she was personally rejecting me, that I wasn't good enough for her. I had no framework to make sense of the loss. But now, I do. I have many guides, but quite a few of them are my ancient family from a long, long time ago. If I passed to a higher vibration and couldn't see them again, I'd be devistated. One of my guides for instance used to be my sister. We still act like sisters! :-) I'd be broken if I never saw her again. So I have talked to my ancient kin about this very thing, because I don't want my fear to prevent me from growing. Here is what they said: If it gets to a point where you surpass any of us in vibration, we will celebrate with you, there must be freedom in unconditional love, real love would never demand of anyone to hold back on their journey for another. But even if one or more of us no longer guide you directly or at all we will not abandon you. You are family, you are sister and child, you are our own. There is no separation, there is no loss as we are you and you are us, and beyond that we walk your journey, you have returned to stand with us, we stand with you the same.

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Nancy DeMarco link
24/9/2015 07:21:17 pm

Could this be why the one and only guide I was familiar with, I could talk to her and hear her as if she was next to me, I can no longer hear? I did not get to see her though before she left. I thought she may have stepped back to allow another guide to come in. Very confusing. I miss her and on top of that regardless of how I meditate, I cannot get a clear, sure feeling of who my main guide is right now.

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Antonia
17/12/2017 06:14:51 pm

Thank you for this Kimberly I feel like I can relate with past and now present experiences, great read xxx

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Andrea
20/7/2018 12:18:52 am

All three of my guides vanished st the same time. I’m so confused and depressed. I know they were guides still identifying with their last earth lives so maybe they all finished their objective with me together, and are now all evolving themselves. I’ve been alone for 5 days, expecting arrival of my new guide or guides. Expecting higher evolved guides. Does this sound right?????

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Jenn
7/7/2019 04:26:04 pm

About a month ago my spirit guide said to me ‘I can no longer protect you’ a couple of weeks later he gave me an ultimatum after I felt he was negotiating with someone else’s spirit guide. Now I don’t feel him. I call on him and he doesn’t come. Today I heard him faintly whisper guidance to me. Is it a reflection of my evolution or his?

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Rhenon Williams
24/7/2019 09:29:06 am

My deceased husband came and at first I didn't recognize him. But he showed me it was him. He said he was here to protect me. But literally all the energy was gone. It left my heart aching and very confused and my loneliness is back. Just another start of grief.

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BCK
5/8/2019 01:12:43 pm

Thanks, really really helpful. xoxo

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Sylvia
21/10/2019 10:18:30 am

A dear loved one guided me. I was never told what to do, and they didn't interfere with the daily things of my life or how I handled them.
Their presence was love, sweetness and supportive, though not all the time, but when they were near a little light shone over my life.
Then without any warning they disappeared. Utterly and totally. There is not a shred of contact any more. I carry on trying to handle things, be brave in my life, and will always love that dear Soul.
I miss them so very much. It's like the light went out. Except the light that's left is the alchemy our spiritual relationship created in me. But it doesn't feel as happy a light.....

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Shay
19/12/2019 09:26:38 am

I got to know who my main spirit guide was several months ago through automatic writing. I had tried this before about 3 years ago and quit but something, like an sense of urgency, "told me" to start back with my writings. I was shocked at how much she told me about herself, her life when she was alive, etc. There have been others that have been able to pick up on her without me saying anything other than asking what they are picking up on her. She absolutely felt real, good, surrounded by positivity and all that. Long story short, she and I communicated pretty much every day and I would worry when I couldn't "hear" her in my mind. The past month or so I noticed I wasn't hearing her as much and then it seemed that all went silent, just when I needed her the most. Like others have said, I was confused, hurt, disappointed and all. Today, I have heard her again telling me that we need a fresh start and to start my writings again and that we shall connect again spiritually. What I am getting is that she was ashamed, embarrassed and hurt about feeling that she had failed me recently (her own words of failing me). She says they are not perfect on the other side and that they too are learning to work with us which live in the realm of the living. She says she will never leave me and she is always there and that I do believe. I may have tuned her out, which may have caused me to believe she wasn't there but events that unfolded over the past several months, I can't deny there was some kind of divine intervention. She loves me very much and this I have been told by a psychic and a complete stranger as we struck up a conversation about spirit guides.

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Heather
24/5/2022 04:17:25 pm

Well I lost my spirit guide today and I can’t stop crying. In the absolute worst way. She gave me signs she was leaving leading up to my QHHT session I had today. I saw her in my regression and it was a tear jerker of a goodbye. So awful how I feel right now. I know I need to connect with my new guide but it will be a while for me. The guide I lost I’ve known in past lives and we were super close.

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